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Chapters and Sub Headings

Your Relationship to God

  • Performance
  • Legalism or grace
  • Discipleship survey
  • Spiritual beliefs survey
  • The Holy Spirit
  • Daily life survey

Covenant

  • What is covenant?
  • Blood covenant
  • Marriage covenant
  • Equally yoked
  • Life …happens
  • Your view of marriage

Becoming One

  • Becoming one flesh
  • Bonding
  • Compatibility
  • Boundaries
  • A sports prenuptial
  • Workaholism
  • Skeletons in the closet

Your Relationship

  • Getting to know you
  • Childhood and family life
  • Character and personality
  • Will thou be made whole?

Extended Relationships

  • Your family & future in-laws
  • Family and in-law checklist
  • Previous relationships
  • Stepfamilies
  • Stepfamily belief survey
  • Divorce and remarriage

Roles and Expectations

  • Relationship expectations
  • Unspoken rules and roles
  • Submission
  • Husband’s role
  • Wife’s role
  • Lifestyle expectations
  • Family planning

Communication

  • Communication inventory
  • Love language
  • Resolving conflicts
  • Conflict resolution inventory
  • Issues checklist

Love

  • God’s brand of love
  • Survey of 1 Cor 13

Finances

  • Financial inventory
  • Budgets, goals, planning

Sex

  • Your views about sex
  • Sex survey
  • Your honeymoon
  • Sexual problems

Appendix

  • Resources, links
  • Myths about cohabitation